Our family home
on the Menominee River (late 1940’s)
Dear George,
This is the fourth in a
series of cumulative archives of family photos which were taken by my dad in
the 1940s and 50s. These images
previously appeared on a weekly basis in this blog’s righthand column under the
label, “Vic’s Photos”. The three
earlier archives can be accessed by going to the righthand column, scrolling
down to “Labels”, and clicking on “Archives”. My father, V.A.L. Jr., documented our family’s world during
our childhood years and beyond. My
brother Peter reprinted these images from Vic’s original negatives in the form
of postcards, and his project is the source of most of the photos contained
here. The subjects include my
parents Doris and Vic; my brothers Steven and Peter, my sister Vicki, and
myself; my grandfathers V.A.L. Sr. and Guy Cramer; and various other family
members and friends who will be identified as they appear. Many valuable memories have been kept
alive through Vic’s and Peter’s efforts.
Love,
Dave
Three Brothers at YMCA
Camp
This is me, my younger
brother Steve, and our still younger brother Peter at YMCA camp near Green Bay,
Wisconsin, about 1950. I’d be sent
off for a two-week stay each summer till I was thirteen or so. I viewed going to camp with horror
since the vast majority of my campmates were strangers, mainly from the Green
Bay area. My most vivid camp
memories include: throwing frogs on the water on their bellies to paralyze
them; weaving plastic lanyards; pulling wings off butterflies; the buddy system
when swimming; scary ghost stores around the campfire; playing war games at
night in the woods; participating in the camp Olympics; seeing how close we
could throw our jack knives toward one another’s feet; and the most popular kid
being somebody who later grew up to be president of the Green Bay Packers
organization.
The Artistes
My parents and their friends
were ingenious in thinking up collective projects and theme parties. This is my dad, Vic; his good friend,
Pat Steffke; and my Aunt Millie, posing at the “Art Contest”. Millie, my Uncle Kent’s wife, was a
southern belle from Georgia and a former Army nurse. She had a marvelous disposition, full of laughter and
generosity. Pat was a local
businessman who ran a dry cleaning establishment, then founded an insurance
firm. A World War II vet, he was
one of my dad’s card-playing pals at Riverside Country Club.
Football Practice
Maybe 10 or 11, I’m ready to
throw the football in our front yard at river house. I was embarrassed about my braces at the time, hence my
restrained, close-mouthed smile.
Playing football in the front yard and basketball in the driveway were
among the most fun parts of our childhood lives.
Steve and Snowman
This is my brother Steve in
his early teens posing with an icy associate in our front yard at river
house. I’m sure Steve and I built
the snowman, and our creations became larger and more fanciful the older we
grew.
Peter’s Birthday
Our parents were members of
an extended adult social circle, and so we children were members of an
associated kid social circle as well.
My brother Peter and sister Vicki were 8 years and 10 years younger than
me respectively, so they had a different peer groups though often from the same
families. I think that this photo
was taken at Peter’s 6th or 7th birthday party. From the left: Mary Mars, Bruce Caley, Peter L., Vicki L.,
Sandy Smith, Kevin (Kiera) O’Hara, Jeanner Jacobsen, Suzy (Susan) Sawyer.
Mother and Daughter
After three boys in a row, my
parents were thrilled to have a girl as their youngest child. I’d say our mom, Doris, was closer to
our sister Vicki than to any of the boys.
We were jealous and teased Vicki, though we also adored her. I always thought that their close
mother-daughter bond had a big influence on Vicki’s growing up, and motherhood
became an important part of her own young adult life.
Steve’s Birthday with
Friends
This was taken at my brother
Steve’s ninth birthday. His best
friend Peter Johnson is to his right, Dooley Worth to his left, and Jeanne
Worth (I think) to the far right.
Peter and Steve were lifelong best friends. Decades later Peter’s wife said that Peter laughed harder
when Steve came back to Menominee that at any other time of the year. I can testify to that because I also
laughed more when I got together with Steve in Menominee than any other time of
the year.
The O’Hara Family
This group looks like they
are decked out for New Years Eve.
Mike and Jean O’Hara (left) and their kids were among our family’s
closest friends. Mike was a
lawyer, an ex-marine, and a Justice of the Michigan Supreme Court; Jean, a mom
and homemaker. Terry, in the fur
coat, was the oldest child in the family.
Michael Dennis, next to her, was a year younger than my brother Steve. Kevin (now Kiera) at the front left and
my sister Vicki were the same age. Patrick Sean at the front right was the baby
of the family. We had lots of fun times and got into occasional mischief at the
river house and at the O’Hara’s home on Green Bay. We had a running debate about whether the river or the bay
was more desirable. I was always positive about the river, but now I’m not so
sure.
Cool Cats
This is my brother Steve with
his good friend, Bob Picard. I don’t know the story connected with this
picture, except that Bob was the sort who might own a jazzy sports car and
Steve was the sort to be riding around with him in it. High school
classmates and close chums, Bob became a varsity football coach and
principal at Marinette High, and he’d regularly get together with Steve and our
family when we visited Menominee.
Hot Air Balloon
My brother Peter sent me this
photo as a mystery picture, and it is sort of a mystery. It’s taken on the front lawn of our
house on the Menominee River. The
readily visible participants (from the left) are my mom Doris, myself, my dad
Vic, my sister Vicki, and family friend Jean Worth. Our parents and their friends were always engaged in offbeat
enterprises of one sort or another, and this one involved the launching of a
hot air balloon. I think it was at
Jean Worth’s instigation. My hazy
recollection is that the balloon journey was only a limited success and it
wound up crashing in the river.
Young Golfers at Riverside
I’m the one on the bench,
pouting, and my brother Steve is teeing up his ball for a drive on the first
hole at the Riverside Country Club.
We took weekly lessons there, and many summer mornings we’d ride our
bikes a mile up Riverside Boulevard to play golf. Being four years Steve’s senior, I usually dominated the
various sports competitions that we engaged in as kids. However, by the time Steve reached 11
or 12 it was clear that he was going to be a far superior golfer (and he did
become one of the best junior golfers in the Twin Cities). I eventually responded to this
unnatural development by retiring my golf clubs and taking up tennis.
The Jacobsen Family
The Jacobsens were close
family friends. This is dad Jes,
mom Nan, and oldest daughter Jeaner (who would later be joined by her sisters
Mary Nell and Nancy). Jes and Nan
were friendly, warm, and generous.
Jes was a business executive in Menominee, and Nan was a speech
pathologist and homemaker. Because
of job transfers, the family moved to Milwaukee, then to Colorado, and Nan
returned to Menominee after Jes’s death in 1986. The Jacobsen’s arranged several times for our family to have
Green Bay Packers tickets during the Vince Lombardi era and graciously lent us
their cottage on the Green Bay shore on many of our August family reunion
visits. It only took one Packer
game for us to become enthusiastic fans of Bart Starr, Jerry Kramer, Paul
Hornung, Max Mcgee, Carroll Dale, Jim Taylor, and a host of other gridiron
heroes. Vicki and I visited Nan at
her bayshore cottage on all of our trips to Menominee, and we were very
saddened when we learned of her death in 2009 at age 90.
Riding on the Carousel
Travelling carnivals were a
highlight of Menominee’s summer season.
I remember riding the carrousel horses each time the carnival came to
town, here at age 3 with my mother Doris joining me for the ride. I was a timid kid, and I still recall
the horses, continually bouncing up and down, as being a dangerous
proposition. Hence my mom’s
protective outstretched arm.
Teen Horsewoman
My mother was an ardent horse
rider in her youth and young adulthood. While she never succeeded in passing
this along to her two oldest sons, she had more success encouraging Peter and
Vicki to take horseback lessons.
Vicki looks very composed on her steed.
Bill Caley’s Sculpture
When my parents’ good friend,
Bill Caley, became interested in sculpture, he enlisted Vicki as his subject for a bust. Vickie wasn’t excited about being a
model, but my parents were thrilled with the product, and it became a family
heirloom.
Off on a Great Adventure
Menominee’s environs offered
lots of outdoor activities, and camping was one of my favorite pastimes. This photo is of Tom Caley, Peter
Venema, myself, and my brother Steve at the beginning of an expedition. Actually it was our most significant
camping since we were taken across Green Bay in a family friend’s boat and
deposited on the beach of Chambers Island, scheduled to be picked up several
days later. There may have been
other human beings somewhere on the island, but we never saw any sign of them,
and Chambers Island was as close to the rugged wilderness as we ever got. We constructed a campsite with a
firepit and a latrine in the midst of the untamed woods and told scary stories
around the campfire.
The Buscher Family
My aunt Martha was the
youngest of four children, her older siblings being Vic and twin brothers Kent
and Karl. She was married to Ralph
Buscher, one of the two managers of our Marinette family drugstore, and their
kids were our cousins Ann and John.
Martha, Ralph, and their family lived at Pine Beach, a former Chatauqua
community outside Marinette. My
grandfather, VA Sr., lived there with the family in his older years. Here are all the Buschers on the front
lawn at River House.
In the Silver Dollar Pool
Room
When my parents bought their
land at Birch Creek in the 1960’s it contained a compound of buildings
including a log cabin house, a large barn, a two-car log garage, and several
buildings used to store goods or house creatures (e.g., chickens). One building, about 8 x 12’, was
converted into the Silver Dollar Pool Room, and it became the site of
innumerable late night contests among siblings. Steven was more advanced than the rest of us in pool table
skills, and it was a rare event that anybody could win a game against him,
though we tried as hard as possible.
This is a picture of me in the thick of the competition.
Uncle Kent at the
Menominee Drug Store
My grandfather V.A. Sr.
emigrated from Sweden and founded drugstores in the twin cities of Menominee,
MI, and Marinette, WI, in the early part of the twentieth century. When he retired, he gave the Menominee
Drugstore to my Uncle Kent and the Marinette Drugstore to my dad. Kent, a registered pharmacist, ran the
Menominee drugstore throughout his career, as well as serving as the state
chairman of the American Legion in Michigan and as an elected member of the Michigan
House of Representatives. My
brother Steve and I had lunch at the drugstore every weekday during our grade
school years, and Kent generously turned his office over to us for eating and
reading the week’s new comic books.
The Safety Patrol
Washington Grade School had
an adult crossing guard at the school’s largest intersection at Ogden Avenue,
but sixth-graders manned the two crossings at the less busy street corners on
the school’s south side. The girls’
safety patrol handled one street crossing; the boys, the other; and all the
sixth graders took their daily turns as crossing guards. My brother Steven was the captain of
the safety patrol in his sixth grade year in 1952, and one can see that he was enthusiastic
about his responsibilities.
Vicki’s Silver Tooth
Vicki’s preteen years were
marred when Steve, playing caroms, made a wild and crazy shot and knocked out
her front tooth with the tip of his pool cue. The dentist temporarily replaced the broken tooth with a silver
version, and, while we brothers claimed it looked cool, Vicki said it was about
the worst thing that could ever happen to a young girl.
The Cousins at Xmas (circa
1952)
Each Christmas our extended
family would gather at our house on the Menominee River, and we would exchange
presents and celebrate with our cousins.
From the left: my cousins Thor L. and Johnny Buscher, my brother Peter,
me in the Santa suit holding Annie Buscher, and my siblings Steve and Vicki.
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G-Mail Comments
-Linda C
(8-3): Great pictures, and memories I would suppose. Your parents were
brave to raise the children so close to the river!
-Gayle C-L
(8-2): So Beautiful... Thank you for the beautiful
pictures....
Hope all is
well. I've been very busy w
work... That's a good thing but difficult to enjoy the summer.. Lots of love.... G
As the eldest in our respective families and each being separated from our siblings by an almost identical number of years, David's Menominee memories are also my childhood memories. It hardly seems possible that much of it was almost 3/4 of a century ago! Familiar as Vic's photos are, I don't think I had previously seen the particular O'Hara family photo that is included in this post. Thanks for the memories, Dave!
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