Dear George,
We lost our
sheepdogs about a year ago, Duffy in June of 2015 and Mike in November.
Despite the passage of time, we’re still recovering — the dogs were such
ever-present sources of pleasure. We do still enjoy sheepdog perks,
though, because our good friend Donna owns Sophie, Mike and Duffy’s
younger sister. When Donna went to Nashville last weekend, Sophie came to
stay with us, as she does every now and then. It was good to have a
sheepdog back in the house, and I took lots of pics.
At thirteen
and a half, Sophie is approaching 95 in human years, and she clearly has
various infirmities of a senior dog. One of her eyes is clouded over, and
she’s lost about 90% of her hearing. Getting up from the floor is a
struggle, and its’s been a couple of years since she was able to jump into the
SUV. Sophie gets a painkiller for arthritis at bedtime, another pill for
a leaky bladder. At the same time, her basic personality hasn’t really
changed since she was a year-old puppy — sweet, frisky, attentive,
good-natured. Overall, Sophie enjoys a high quality of life for her
advanced age and continues to be a happy, active dog. If she were able to
talk, Sophie might tell us a lot about the secrets of successful aging.
As far as I can tell, the following are some of the sheepdog lessons about
managing old age that we’d be wise to attend to.
(1) Stay
positive. Despite lots of discomfort, Sophie’s most frequent expression
is a happy smile. Her good attitude undoubtedly has many beneficial
consequences, physical and psychological.
(2)
Exercise. Sophie’s healthiness for her age is due at least in part to
Donna’s always making sure that she’s gotten plenty of walks. Because of
creaky joints, it takes Sophie longer to get warmed up now, but then she’s good
for a mile or two (or actually as long as the humans want to go).
Frequent hikes are the best thing that Sophie does to ward off the ravages of
Father Time.
(3) Rest
up. On the other hand, when nothing much is going on, Sophie lies down
and nods off in a minute or two. She is such a good sleeper, and naps are
the best for healing aches and pains.
(4) Drink
plenty of water. Dogs and people get dehydrated when they don’t drink
enough, especially in the summertime. Fortunately, water is Sophie’s
forte. She not only drains much of the bowl but splashes the leftovers
onto the kitchen floor.
(5) Persist
in the face of obstacles. Arthritis makes climbing the stairway a
laborious process. Nonetheless, Sophie is always determined to complete
the task, systematically putting her front paws up on each successive step,
then jumping up with her back paws.
(6) Take
care, watch out. Going back down the staircase is even more
nerve-wracking than climbing up. Perhaps as a result of previous falls,
Sophie is slow and cautious. It’s a good reminder for the rest of
us.
(7) Make some
adjustments. Our own sheepdogs were always terrified of our mysterious,
noisy elevator. One day, however, Sophie rode with Katja to the
second floor. Now she routinely leads Katja to the elevator when she
wants to go upstairs.
(8) Be
playful. Sophie has kept her puppy spirit alive over the years. One
of her favorite activities is to walk around the house carrying her beloved
stuffed dog. Then she’ll bring it over for a spirited game of tug-of-war.
(9) Keep
track of things. While we humans go batty from misplacing things, Sophie
likes to store her possessions in secret places. The dining room table
offers a perfect hiding spot for her stuffed dog.
(10) Seek out
favorite spots. Dogs seem to sense that security and feelings of
well-being result from being in favorite locations that are familiar and
comfortable. Sophie’s long-time sheepdog bed is her number one
place.
(11) Relish
life’s treats. Mike and Duffy always responded to their routine daily
walk around the block as if it were a brand new, exciting adventure. And
food, of course, resulted in pure ecstasy. Though Sophie’s appetite has
declined some, she still gobbles up her meals in a matter of minutes when she’s
hungry.
(12) Stick
close to loved ones. Like her brothers, Sophie is very
people-oriented. She usually hangs out near wherever we’re sitting.
As bedtime draws near, Sophie is the first one into the bedroom, and I help
lift her into the bed so she can stake out her position right next to the
humans.
(13) Have a
good bark every now and then. Sheepdogs aren’t big barkers. As
she’s gotten older, though, Sophie seems to enjoy barking loudly when I lean
over and wave my hands. It’s a friendly, enthusiastic bark and seems to
be giving voice to all her inner exuberance. Barking is good for the soul — we
all need to bark a little more.
I don’t know
if we’ll ever be ninety-five, but, if we are, I hope we’re able to do as well
as Sophie. There’s a lot to be learned from the mysterious sheepdog
world.
Love,
Dave
I am going to unabashedly plagiarize (remember Tom Lehr?) your phrase and henceforth explain many things with: "the various infirmities of a senior (sic) woman"
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